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CatAtTheSpot said...
Well put, wineknow. You are wrong about what is taught in business school, however. I was shocked at how much "emotionall intelligence" was part of my business school's curriculum. A lot of it is not trading what you want most for what you want right now, but the majority of EI subject matter dealt with interpersonal relations.
I've found time-and-again that someone's personal life is reflected in their professional life. IOW don't expect a client or supplier to show any more loyalty to a supplier or client, respectively, than they do to their family.
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BlkMtn said...
You have to question someone interested in a woman half his age, single of married. At some point this is something that doesn't work out. You also have to question a 25 year old woman with any interest at all in a man old enough to be her father. Both situations are weird.
I had a business partner who was harassed by a professional after only one sales call. Eight calls in a row with each voice mail message more and more lurid. I told her never to go see him again and he was a very important customer to us at the time. Our manager agreed, and with the evidence of the texts and voicemails, it could have been very embarrassing for him. But we agree just to never go back to this guy. WK is right, sometimes you just walk away.
In the interest of fairness to Stoops, I'm pretty sure I could care less who he dated or how many, but if the inference is that is what caused his divorce, it's a far cry from what I heard, but all of that is heresay whether it was his fault or not. Whether it contributed to a lack of focus on his job at Arizona is something that only Stoops can answer. After Stoops was divorced, I think he was fair game to date who he wanted to, and that's his personal choice.
But there is no getting around an essential truth, personal decisions can affect job performance, and although this is a free country and people can make all kinds of personal decisions, like Petrino did, they all can carry consequences.
"Arizona has no tradition" - Bill Walsh "We have a tradition of kicking Bill Walsh's ass" - Teddy Bruschi
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rickyk said...
Let me throw another hypothetical (cough, cough) out there: Let's suppose we found out that one of our major big time sport coaches was trying to nail every co-ed that came within 1000 ft., of our athletic offices; would that be something we should mind our own business about? Or would we have a right to be incensed with such poor judgment and lack of class? How would we know--or would we not care--if that coach was more focused on getting a whiff of the quiff than on recruiting and developing/riding herd on stud players? Is a university campus now just another workplace or does it carry any kind of special obligation for a higher standard? It used to, when I was coming up the colleges and institutions of higher education were considered to be in loco parentis.
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rickyk said...
Another aspect of the Coach Peterino situation that I think is worthy of consideration is the fact that he is/was hitting on the fiance of a fellow University of Arkansas worker. What kind of ethical standard is that for a public employee? I swear, I must be in the minority but every public organization I ever managed I always expected and in fact demanded a higher standard. "Conduct unbecoming" was a phrase that was used on more than one occasion in disciplining public employees under my watch.
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